[ughughugh]

So my BF tells me last night his bored with our relationship. I tell him maybe we have been spending too much time together under the same roof and that the following Morning I will gather a few of my things and head back to my place.

In the AM he tells me not to go and to please stay at his place that night. I agree. He later calls me on my way to work to wish me a great day and let me know that this is just a 'funk' and we will work it out and he loves me.

I can't FIX his bored issues. He is being a great communicator and open and honest. So why am I still bothered by this comment? I don't feel the same way. What should I do?

[smearcase]

You don't mention how long you have been together but possibly you are wondering how long it would take him to get into another funk if you had a very long term relationship.

[ughughugh]

You don't mention how long you have been together but possibly you are wondering how long it would take him to get into another funk if you had a very long term relationship.

We causual dated for 1.5 years the last 5 months being serious. And yep I am wondering if these 'funks' will be frequent. I am a really laid back chick, a little no committal and emotional unavailable, so these sort of talks are creeping me out. However my BF is an incredible good BF and person. That the biggest attraction.

[Homegirl 50]

He told you this is just a 'funk' and we will work it out and he loves me.

. I'd take him at his word. Living together takes some adjusting. If is happens again you two need to have a talk about your relationship.

[Fr_Chuck]

We all get "bored" or too used to be with the other person, Look at the last month or two, is there a routine, same thing happening week after week.

Look for a change, in going out, in sex and more.

[ArmstrongMiller]

Distance and private space and private time~