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    Mar 16, 2007, 06:11 PM
    Won't have sex.
    I have been with a guy for a long time ups and downs and everything but we are now married and have a kid also we live together let me remind you I'm 19 and he's 22 what I don't get is he won't have sex with me when I come to him and want it really bad... he says his head hurts or his back hurts or just anything... I actually talk to him and he says we just don't need to have sex all the time I Don't believe that answer it can't be cheating because he's here 24 7 at the moment, so I need someone who has been likethis before I need to know was up
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    Mar 16, 2007, 07:09 PM
    Just to clarify are you saying he isn't interested all the time, or only when you approach him about it?
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    Mar 16, 2007, 07:21 PM
    One theory is that SOMETIMES men see women who have their children differently before the kid and after the kid. After his child is born, the woman becomes less of a sex object and more of a "mother of my child" figure (less of a turn on)... just a theory I have seen floating around.
    SO, the questions is: Was this change soon after you had his child?
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    Mar 17, 2007, 12:22 PM
    I have a similar problem. Take a look at "Our sex life is a disaster". Seee if its any help to you
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