[aduckart]

I am a newlywed and unfortunately for my husband, I've had a lack of interest in having sex for the past two months.

I LOVE my husband and find him as attactive as he was the first day I met him. Nothing in our relationship has changed except my desire to make love to him. :(

He has not pushed the issue or mentioned anything to me (though I'm sure he thinks about it)... but I need to make this change and am looking for advice on how to light a fire under me so I can please my husband and make love to him like a newlywed wife should!

[nessa1]

Well sweetie, if he hasn't even brought it up, he may have no desire for you either:( sorry

[aduckart]

Does anyone else have any advice or suggestions or am I to assume that my husband doesn't want me? :mad:

I don't think that is the case...

[admiralsfan]

It sounds like you need to have a heart to heart talk with him about sex. Open communication is key to any relationship, especially marriage. It may be uncomfortable, but it won't get any better unless you talk. Maybe the lack of interest is simply that sex between you two is getting too "ordinary" you both need to mix it up. Get creative. But most importantly, talk to him.

[Bluerose]

Personally I think it is better to take things slowly - let the relationship burn like a candle, not flare like a match. A burning candle lasts much, much longer.

You are newlyweds... There would be no harm in buying some books on the subject.