[Lastchance94]

We have been together since August 7, 2012. We've known each other since we were 12 he recently turned 20 and I turned 18 in August. He bought me a promise ring for Christmas. He recently has started to be friends with his ex again, but they both say that they are just friends. I trust him and know they aren't talking as me and her are starting to become friends. He was mad at me because I was being too clingy, but I was scared that he would go to her. He broke up with me yesterday saying he just wanted a break and then after having a conversation with my sister he changed his mind this is what he told her "today is my bday and we were supposed to go eat. She was gonna pay. Her card was rejected 3 times so I paid. The. I told her that I'm tired of her lying and drama. Then I just told her I wasn't happy and i need space. She told me to leave her if I wasn't happy so I did. I'm done. I'm tired of being lied to and getting hurt. It's dumb." I do not know what I lied about but apparently he thinks I lie about everything. Today we both talked and this is what was said:
Him-why must you try to still be in my life
Me-what?
Him-why are you trying to talk to everyone I talk to
Me- I asked ***** if she wanted to come get her charger and if you had said anything I'm sorry
Him- K
Me- you told me last night you just wanted a break what changed your mind?
Him- your sister. The fact you won't let this go. A lot of stuff
Me- I can't help what she does/: it pissed me off that she did it too but I made her delete your number. But I'm sorry I can't let it go I love you and do care about you and it's just hard... I thought we were getting better than you just end it.. I understand why you had your reasons but to just walk out of my life for good and its so easy for you... I just want a break and try to be friends and see where it goes from there.
Him- K whatever
Me- and you don't care of course...
Him- I mean I just don't want a relationship now.
Me- well can we work on the friends thing?
Him- sure
Me- I do have a question though don't get mad when I ask it. D you think we could ever work things out and try again? I know right now you don't want to...
Him- I don't know
Me- want me to text you later I don't want to bother you?
He then said no and that he wanted to see me Friday and that later tonight be would help me with my job application. I then texted him to text me later and that I know he's busy at work. I honestly don't know... He's sending me mixed signals and I don't understand what he's trying to play at. Should I just wait for him to come around and don't bother him?

[Murdertrain]

Yeah, I would just give him what he wants. Space. I wouldn't text him or talk to him. Go live your life and spend time with who you want. He is either really confused on what he wants right now (unlikely), or he has someone on the side and wants to keep you hanging on just in case it falls through. I noticed you kept apologizing to him for asking questions and for other peoples actions. Don't do that! If he knows he has you under his thumb, that's where he'll keep you. Any man that loves or likes you won't treat you that way. Be smart and use your head.