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    sabresfan23 Posts: 11, Reputation: 4
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    Dec 26, 2012, 05:32 PM
    I'm too available. How do I fix it?
    I've been seeing this girl for a few months now. Casually dating, spending nights, etc... We have spent way too much time together, I almost see her everyday one way or another. Lately I've noticed she gets a quick trigger with me over small things and seems less interested.

    I know we spend too much time together, and I feel like I'm always there for her and its not reciprocated to me. I would eventually like to be with this girl but I want her to come after me as well. I worry now if I'm texting too much or returning her texts fast enough. If we don't talk for a few hours it bothers me.

    What do I do to not lose this girl and put spice and chase back in the equation?
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    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
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    Dec 26, 2012, 05:34 PM
    How about sitting down and talking about your needs and how you are not feeling equal in the relationship.


    Playing games, playing hard to get is more Jr High school than adult dating
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    Dec 26, 2012, 06:13 PM
    Maybe your insecurities are bothering her. Why don't you talk to her about how you're feeling, it could be that after a few months it's not working as much for her, or maybe your need to be chased is a problem.
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