[Loneliness]

Hi everyone
I've been married to my husband for just over a year we been together 7 years now and we have two kids. For the past few years I feel like he is not as interested as he used to be in so many ways.. . he never holds my hand anymore or kisses me, we have sex no more that once a month! And we are only 26, I always want sex and be intimate with him but he often comes up with some lame excuses for not doing it and he docent even try to please me instead... I'm getting really frustrated that I always have to start making a move on him! And I've tried everything, not making a move, trying something new, talking to him about it but nothing works... Now I'm kind at a breaking point as it's our anniversary today and I am away from home working (have been for nearly 2 weeks now) and I get his brother saying to me on Facebook by the way your husband says happy anniversary :( it just makes me sad, he can't even say it to me himself, since I've been gone I've talked to him everyday and he hasn't said nothing about he misses me, or he's looking forward to see me again! I just don't know what to think anymore :( please can you help, if you have any advise for me or just anything...