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    Nov 29, 2012, 10:17 PM
    How do a woman know when she has had an orgasm
    I'm 19 and I've just started being sexually active with my boyfriend. We've had sex three times and he has ejacluated and pre nutted but I've did nothing no orgasm... I mean is this normal?
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    Nov 29, 2012, 10:26 PM
    Can you produce an orgasm when masturbating?

    Most women don't orgasm because of penetration.
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    Nov 29, 2012, 10:46 PM
    If you're waiting for him to bring you to orgasm you may be waiting a long time. Men don't automatically know how to get a girl to have an orgasm, and each woman is different, so what worked for one, may not work for you.

    Like Wondergirl said, most women don't orgasm through penetration. So, learn what works for you, and then guide him. If you don't give him directions then don't expect him to find the way.
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    Nov 29, 2012, 10:54 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Can you produce an orgasm when masturbating?

    Most women don't orgasm because of penetration.
    Yes I can orgasm through oral and masturbating
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    Nov 29, 2012, 10:57 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lizzy23 View Post
    yes i can orgasm through oral and masturbating
    How do you do oral on yourself?

    I mean, can you produce your own orgasms, all alone in a quiet place?
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    Nov 29, 2012, 10:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    If you're waiting for him to bring you to orgasm you may be waiting a long time. Men don't automatically know how to get a girl to have an orgasm, and each woman is different, so what worked for one, may not work for you.

    Like Wondergirl said, most women don't orgasm through penetration. So, learn what works for you, and then guide him. If you don't give him directions then don't expect him to find the way.
    But last time we tried it and I tried guiding him and he stared going fast it felt good, but I didn't orgasm but afterwards it hurted for so I stopped, he told me it was because I'm thinking about it hurting more than enjoying it
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    Nov 29, 2012, 11:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    How do you do oral on yourself?

    I mean, can you produce your own orgasms, all alone in a quiet place?
    Sometimes, but not all the time
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    Nov 29, 2012, 11:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lizzy23 View Post
    yes i can orgasm through oral and masturbating
    Women don't usually orgasm just with penetration. (Those x-rated videos are all made up and faked.) There has to be a build-up from his doing oral on her and her masturbating herself and him touching her there and all over. If she orgasms while he is inside her, count it a good day!
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    Nov 29, 2012, 11:13 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Women don't usually orgasm just with penetration. (Those x-rated videos are all made up and faked.) There has to be a build-up from his doing oral on her and her masturbating herself and him touching her there and all over. If she orgasms while he is inside her, count it a good day!
    Lol okay thanks
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