[cutiepop05]

Okay I have been in a relationship with someone for 2 and a half years. He is good in every way accept he talks to another girl on and off I know that the things he talks about are inappropriate, but I can't be sure if it goes beyond that. I don't know if he is actually cheating on me physically. I understand that I don't need someone who texts and talks to other girls sexually as my partner. I know I deserve better than that. My problem is more financial and emotional. I love him and very much enjoy spending time with him. We always have a good time together. We live together. Now as of right now he is going to school for pharmacy and is half way done. We are currently splitting the bills. It's almost like a battered women type of relationship, I would describe it because he is abusing me emotionally by talking to other women. And I can't seem to let him go. I actually felt worse when he was gone and we were broken up. I hate being alone. It really causes me more distress to be alone than it does when I catch him talking to these other girls.

He gives me anything I want. He will make whatever I want happen. He really is everything I have been looking for. He wants to marry me. He explains to me he wants to change his bad habits. He changed his phone number. He says he wants a relationship with me and to marry me. I just don't know if I should keep trusting him. I don't know if I'll ever be able to find someone who will be as good as he is in all the other ways. He isn't lazy. He takes care of me. The only things I can really nag about is that he leaves the seat up. I guess my problem is I feel like in any relationship there are always things you have to over come. Is this something I should just deal with?

[Molly3005]

Have you told him all of this?
God knows its hard ending a relationship at any point especially when you are in love. I would say that I wouldn't put up with that and I would have no problem telling him, but then I don't love. What I would say is that everyone deserves to be happy, and if you aren't then it's your responsibility to fix it because nobody else will. If you are unhappy with his behaviour then tell him, if he doesn't like it then tough! I won't lie it will be hard, but don't just settle for second best just because your Afraid. You'll regret it if you don't tell him and he ends up breaking your heart.