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    Nov 18, 2012, 07:21 PM
    Is my boyfriend a sociopath?
    He tried telling me before he was. When our son was a week old he stole all my money and ran away for two weeks. He has ran away many times for no reason at all and stole many times we don't even fight any more but now he ran away again and stole my car. For no reason at all I can't think of why he left when I was sleeping and I woke up him and car gone he says he loves me but I'm starting to really believe he's a sociopath and has trapped me
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    Nov 18, 2012, 07:22 PM
    How has he trapped you?
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    Nov 18, 2012, 07:27 PM
    Because I'm deeply in love with him and feel dependent on him I have like no family and no one their for me he keeps ing up my life really bad but I never want to let him go because he is so sexy and funny and Idk what will happen if I'm all alone
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    Nov 18, 2012, 07:28 PM
    But my really want to know if he is a sociopath or just selfish because I need to know
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    Nov 18, 2012, 07:30 PM
    What does he run away from?
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    Nov 18, 2012, 07:33 PM
    He leaves our apartment takes off doesn't talk to me stays with a friend or at a motel it happens whenever and is unexpected
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    Nov 18, 2012, 07:40 PM
    Why?
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    Nov 18, 2012, 07:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by whatever118 View Post
    but my really want to know if he is a sociopath or just selfish bc I need to know
    Why does he leave? What triggers these episodes?
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    Nov 19, 2012, 06:26 AM
    He does this because you allow him to. I would worry about myself, not that he is or is not something. He sounds like a man who is allowed to take all the money, go party and do what ever for a few weeks, and just come home without any problem.

    How about moving and starting over or changing the locks and not letting him back in when he returns?
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    Nov 19, 2012, 01:54 PM
    Well I suppose he is not a sociopath because from being around other people and past relationships now that I think more clearly and am not so upset almost all men I know are like this guess I will never have a meanifull relationship then
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    Nov 19, 2012, 01:58 PM
    I didn't want to die alone maybe when I'm really old ill find a tired man that is too tired to play games and run around partying
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    Nov 19, 2012, 02:00 PM
    Nothing triggers it I have talked to exes and he did the same to exes he just doesn't want a life with one person or responsibility like all the men around me that I know
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    Nov 19, 2012, 02:07 PM
    *cough* Not all men are like this. In fact, most are not.

    Time to set boundaries. Maybe some boundaries for yourself would be a good idea.
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    Nov 19, 2012, 02:14 PM
    I make very little money and come from foster care and also already have a child how will I convince a good man to be with me
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    Nov 19, 2012, 02:18 PM
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    I make very little money and come from foster care and also already have a child how will I convince a good man to be with me
    So you are looking for a sugar daddy? Why not get training to better yourself? Or are you thinking, "poor me, I need a man to take care of me"?
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    Nov 19, 2012, 02:21 PM
    Um no your making a assumption which I did not say anything that should lead to that your classifying lower working class females which is sterotyping and in all my relationships I've been the primary provider tyvm hun. I couldn't care less for money I want love but I know almost all men care about money and don't like previous children and I attend school now but it will still be years before I get a career
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    Nov 19, 2012, 02:24 PM
    I have never thought poor me BTW ever I have been through hell and back my whole life and still living still smiling still trying. All I want is someone to love me and a fullfilling relationship
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    Nov 19, 2012, 02:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by whatever118 View Post
    Um no your making a assumption which I did not say anything that should lead to that your classifying lower working class females which is sterotyping and in all my relationships I've been the primary provider tyvm hun. I could care less for money I want love but I know almost all men care about money and don't like previous children and I attend school now but it will still be years before I get a career
    But YOU are the one making assumptions, now with "I know almost all men care about money and don't like previous children."

    What are you reading?

    Are you already working toward that career? I shelved library books for $3 an hour at the start of a 30-year career in Libraryland.
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