[zackman]

Me and my girlfriend dated for about 2 and a half years, we broke up around xmas last year and stayed apart for about a month and a half. I begged to get her back and didn't go a day without contacting her. I know this was bad, but I finally got her back after about a month and a half. So we got back together and all was good, no arguments or anything but then she decides that she's going to transfer from community college to a university and stay in a dorm. When she told me this, it was a surprise and I told her I was happy for her, but she keeps saying that I'm not supporting her. Well after this I could tell something was wrong for about a week or so, and she started in on how I don't show her that I love her like I did when we got back together last time we broke up. Then boom. She texts me and breaks up with me. Well then she called me and wasn't even crying at first, then she says, if you need anything you know you can call me, I told her its not that easy and I hung up. I have not contacted her at all since I hung up the phone and its been 5days. She deactivated her Facebook and twitter while we were together. But now she has reactivated both of these, blocked me from Facebook and locked her twitter account. Although, I have had no contact I still look at her twitter here and there and I don't see that she's communicating with any other guys as of now. And the reason she gave me that she broke up with me is that, she feels like we need it. I asked her if she's moving on and she said no. But I didn't talk much about it. I plan on no contact, even over here birthday that's coming up in a week. I don't want her to think I don't care though. But Ive thought about moving on too and letting it be known??

[zackman]

And she does not try to contact me either.

[stanmatt]

Whatever you want zack you have to love yourself become an attractive person I know its hard right now because the breakup is fresh but you have to be better and when you have moved on from this and become a better person there are better options for you whether your girl comes back to you or not

[GuardianofTime]

Seeker,

What you must understand is simply this... Love is proximate. In other words humans will find love in the area where they reside and spend the most time. For her it will be in the University.

For you it will be where you are. Trust me if there is no contact between the two of you: Time will be the wind that washes away the sand of whatever love you had.

It is obvious that you are not willing to let go just yet. You look at her twitter and her try to find her on Facebook to see her communication. You have not let go, but she indeed is making a huge effort to get rid of you. Reflect this fact i.e.. Blocked Facebook and Twitter...

Step aside after awhile if her efforts to replace you have failed she will return to you.

This song will help you understand a situation where someone who is love... and the girl flees for a while but he waits.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I79BVwnStqY


Guardian

[zackman]

Thanks this helps a little, but she won't be transferring to the university for another year or 2. All her friends are at university's, so I'm lost on the reason it happened, but she told me she's not moving on, just thinks we need this. I'm so confused

[Jiser]

Get rid of all reminders, get rid of all facebooks etc. Don't listen to love music and love songs... ewww get me a bucket ; )

Go no contact.