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    Lexie454 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 27, 2012, 02:02 AM
    My boyfriend wants me to give him head all the time, I really struggle with it?
    My boyfriend of three years has for the past few months been pressuring me to give him head. When we first started dating I didn't do it. I don't perticularly like it due to a past exspeiences, I don't have a very big mouth and I gag a lot.

    My previous experience before dating my boyfriend he guys junk was disgusting it made me sick, cause before I really enjoyed doing it but after this experience I was embarrassed and was scared of doing it.

    With my boy friend lets just say his penis is on the rather large capacity so I struggle giving him head as it doesn't fit well in my mouth and he always wants me to try and deep throut which just makes me gag and not enjoy it. He says the more I try the better and easier it will come! Is this true?

    Recently I dread giving it and I know it's frustrating my boyfriend but I don't know what to do I am scared of doing it and when I do do it it's never good enough I only get complaints that I am not trying hard enough.

    Please help I don't want to upset him but I really am struggling with it and its making me not want to do it at all...
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    lisho1 Posts: 25, Reputation: 2
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    Oct 27, 2012, 04:00 AM
    Mmmm well,it seems your boyfrend isn't putting your feelings into consideration about all this.did you tell him your past experience?its very vital that you talk to him about how uncomfortable this is making you feel.atleast he needs to appreciate the effort you make to give him pleasure.a relationship is a two way thing,so is satisfaction and enjoyment.you treat him right he Should also learn to treat you right
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    Oct 29, 2012, 10:23 AM
    I agree with lisho1. Talk to your boyfriend, explain your feelings and about your past experiences. If you are scared and uncomfortable doing it then don't do it. And your boyfriend should respect that. Maybe he doesn't realize how uncomfortable and scared you are? Explain it to him. If he still pressures you then dump him. You deserve someone who cares about your feelings and respects you.

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