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    Oct 24, 2012, 03:02 PM
    Confused and Hurt
    Well I have a problem. And it's like I met this guy and EVERYONE likes him and we good friends and I sort of have feelings for him. I helped him hook up with this girl as well. The confusing thing about it is I don't want to go out with him I want to remain friends but when his girl comes around it's like I don't want her there or I want more of his attention and stuff. So what should I do?
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    Oct 24, 2012, 03:07 PM
    That is childish, selfish and it reeks of jealousy. Grow up.
    You and this guy are friends get over this mess.
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    Oct 24, 2012, 03:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    That is childish, selfish and it reeks of jealousy. Grow up.
    You and this guy are friends get over this mess.
    Your right! I absolutely agree with you. But its not like I'm trying to break them up or doing something I have no business doing. But the feelings for him ARE there. Everything I said is just how I feel. What's so wrong about saying how I feel? No disrespect but I don't need your negative comments. HAVE ANYONE EVER HAD FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE YOU Shouldn't HAVE FEELINGS FOR? IF SO WHAT DID YOU DO TO GET RID OF THEM FEELINGS? OR WHAT DID YOU DO PERIOD? WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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    Oct 24, 2012, 04:29 PM
    My answer was not negative. It was true. You tell yourself this is wrong and makes no sense, then make up your mind to not dwell on it and then change it. Don't hang around him when he is with his girl friend. How old are you? Do you date?
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    Oct 24, 2012, 04:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    My answer was not negative. It was true. You tell yourself this is wrong and makes no sense, then make up your mind to not dwell on it and then change it. Don't hang around him when he is with his girl friend. How old are you? do you date?
    Its just the way you worded it, it seemed mean. When his girl comes around I ALWAYS give them their space and I barely date
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    Oct 24, 2012, 05:01 PM
    Then you need to do things you enjoy doing, don't spend as much time around him either.
    Maybe once you meet someone you enjoy being with, the thought of him and his girl friend won't bother you.
    Maybe this is why it bothers you to begin with.
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    Oct 24, 2012, 05:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Then you need to do things you enjoy doing, don't spend as much time around him either.
    Maybe once you meet someone you enjoy being with, the thought of him and his girl friend won't bother you.
    Maybe this is why it bothers you to begin with.
    True, thanks
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    Oct 24, 2012, 05:05 PM
    I wish you well
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