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    Oct 20, 2012, 03:50 AM
    How do I know if I've had sex?
    Unfortunately I was drunk that night and don t remember anything happening but something could have.
    I am a virgin and looked for fluids or blood on the sheets afterwards but didn't t see anything at all. There was no discharge in my panties either.
    Was intercourse a possibility?
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    Oct 20, 2012, 05:15 AM
    Yes. He could have used a condom or a handkerchief or not finished, or the semen leaked out if you peed. What is the last thing you remember?
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    Oct 20, 2012, 05:28 AM
    We were definitely making out and there was possibly some manual stimulation.
    However, we both had our underwear on the next morning and like I said, no fluids at all in the bed or floor and I didn't notice anything coming out when I peed.
    I'm just so paranoid about a pregnancy.
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    Oct 20, 2012, 05:42 AM
    Then go to your OB/Gyn to check whether there was penetration.

    Oh and if you are paranoid about pregnancy, then don't get so drunk in the future.
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    Oct 20, 2012, 05:58 AM
    Scott, an OB/GYN cannot tell whether penetration occurred. There would have to be a rape kit done to determine this and most OB/GYNs don't have them in their offices as this is usually done in the ER.
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    Oct 20, 2012, 06:07 AM
    I was going to suggest a rape kit but thought that this may not have been a very recent event.

    In that case, the OP can only wait to see if they get their next period.
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    Oct 20, 2012, 06:12 AM
    Rape kit has a chain of command once it is opened. I don't know if the OP would want to consider charging this guy with rape or attempted rape.
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    Oct 20, 2012, 07:04 AM
    Panties can be put on and taken off, and I have know it to happen with some panties on, depending type and style.

    So sorry it could have happened, no way to know.

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