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Ryuk · Oct 10, 2012, 09:08 PM

Ok first things first. I'm Mormon. I'm also going to college next year. There's no way I would even consider taking advantage of a 14 year old girl, or any girl really. So if sex is out of the question, do you think it is all right for me to date her even if I'm 2 years older than her? I haven't asked her out yet but we both really like each other. I am mature enough to know that this probably isn't love, but doesn't love just mean that you are chemically compatible? I don't know. Let me know what you think.

J_9 · Oct 10, 2012, 09:21 PM

Since sex is out of the question it sounds mature. Now, it's only out of the question if her parents don't allow it.

Fr_Chuck · Oct 10, 2012, 09:26 PM

My only issue is, if at 16, going to be 17, you are going to college, what do you have in common with a 14 year? It seems you are at two completely separate points in life.

But I would say that doing group dating and group ativities may be more proper at this ages

teacherjenn4 · Oct 10, 2012, 09:27 PM

Ask her parents first. This way you will know if you should even bother asking her out. Also, if you are going to college in a year, and you are still dating this young girl, it may be difficult to find her mature enough for you when you are surrounded by 17+ year olds. Take her future feelings into consideration before asking her out.

ScottGem · Oct 11, 2012, 03:08 AM

There's no way I would even consider taking advantage of a 14 year old girl, or any girl really. So if sex is out of the question, do you think it is all right for me to date her even if I'm 2 years older than her? I haven't asked her out yet but we both really like each other. I am mature enough to know that this probably isn't love, but doesn't love just mean that you are chemically compatible? I don't know. Let me know what you think.

A 2 year difference, even at your age is not a big issue. I don't see any problem with dating her as long as her parents agree.

The only issue I would have is if you plan on going away to college, then your relationship may not last.

As for your question about chemically compatibility, no love is not just a chemical reaction. Yes hormones do have something to do with it, but its more than that.