[inloveandscared]

I have been with my partner a little over 6 months we recently split up and got back together a week before I found out I was pregnant so this was very hard as we were still trying to save our relationship letting alone bringing a child into the world. Before all we did is argue, but when I found out he said he would change he did for all of 3 days then he was back to his insucure and not trusting me ways, but his trust issues is not all his fault its due to arguments we had in the past. I love my partner to pecies and wouldn't change him for the world but I'm a month pregnant and we still argue. I have considered getting rid of him and getting a abortion but I'm 21 and it my first and really don't want to get one, how can I resolve this before its too late

[joypulv]

Congratulations on wanting to have a good home for whoever you bring into the world. I would find a Planned Parenthood if you can, and talk to them about your options. Contrary to what some people believe, they aren't there just for birth control and referrals to abortion clinics.
And you don't just need a sound emotional base for the child, you need a financial one. Who will support both you and the baby?

[Fr_Chuck]

My opinoin of Planned Parenthood is well known and I would not send my worst enemy there, for what that is woth.

First it is a matter of choices , pregnancy is a result of sex, if you are not in a committed relationship with a man who would be a good father, why is he a good sex partner.

If you wanted no children were you using at least two forms of birth control ?

Why is counseling to try and make a relationship work, not a possible answer.

[joypulv]

Fr_Chuck, I know you don't like PP but don't know why?

[Fr_Chuck]

As not to steal thread, or start a fight here on issues, I will PM you.