[jimmyfast50]

My girlfriend and I are seniors in high school. We've been dating for 10 months. We started flirting in October of junior year and we started dating in December of junior year. Even before we started dating she always texted other guys. Most from another state,grade, and school. Whevever I saw her texting id glance over and try to see who it was or what it was about. Whenever id see many texts of the same person in a period id ask her about it and she'd always say "dont worry about it" and my problem was that the people she texted were telling her that they loved her and they wanted to see her and she would always text back "love you" and when I asked her about that she said that love you didn't really mean anything. One day I went through her phone on one conversation because id been getting fed up. I always tell her to just talk to me and tell me the truth and I won't be mad. So I looked and it showed that they both said I love you and they both had pet names. It worried me and when I confronted her she looked like a deer in headlights and said its nothing. So now we are back in school... by the way whoever reads all of this thank you for your time... we have an open lunch program in school for 75 minutes and it varies every other day. I get to go with her one day but the next we have different schedules. Lately she has been texting this ex boyfriend from 8th grade that they went out for 2 months. He has texted her before and I always confronted her because he always asks do you want to make out and she has this thing where she can't just say no. so today they went to lunch togeather and I don't trust this guy at all and I feel like something may have happened but she wouldn't tell me right away. Please someone help me out its driving me crazy, should I confront her? Should I continue ignoreing it? Her and I have agreed to get married but after college and she wants to go away and I want to stay home. If I can't trust her here my life will be hell. Help

[Homegirl 50]

When you feel like you have to go through someone's phone and worry about what they are saying, you have no trust and no relationship