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    Sep 19, 2012, 04:27 PM
    My girlfriend will not do anything sexual with me anymore.
    Our relationship is becoming extremely boring and uninteresting to me, we don't have sex ever anymore and we also don't even really get "romantic" in general anymore with each other. I insist we do stuff as in go out of the house hang out with friends, but she doesn't like my group of friends so she sits there grumpy and unimpressed looking, her and I have been dating since we were in grade 9, were both 20 now and I do love her but this relationship is turning boring and making me constantly sexually frustrated.
    How do I get her in the mood to do more stuff?
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    Sep 19, 2012, 04:39 PM
    I'm betting she is expecting the relationship to be at the next level by now... (engagement) and she's feeling a bit like a pincushion.
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    Sep 19, 2012, 04:39 PM
    Have you asked her why things have changed? You have been together since you were teens, maybe you have outgrown each other.
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    Sep 19, 2012, 04:49 PM
    Do you hang out with her friends?
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    Sep 19, 2012, 09:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Do you hang out with her friends?
    She feels like I don't like her friends, so she never asks me to go with her when she's with them, so no, not usually.
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    Sep 19, 2012, 09:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    I'm betting she is expecting the relationship to be at the next level by now...(engagement) and shes feeling a bit like a pincushion.
    Ahahah not quite, she's in her first year of university and still lives at home with her parents, I've offered several times for her to move out with me but she wants to focus on university for the most part.
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    Sep 20, 2012, 09:10 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Canadian_Life View Post
    Ahahah not quite, she's in her first year of university and still lives at home with her parents, I've offered several times for her to move out with me but she wants to focus on university for the most part.
    Shacking up together isn't the same thing to most woman as getting engaged or making wedding plans... And she is being smart about wanting to focus on College... its easy to get distracted.
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