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bantaman99 · Nov 25, 2011, 03:15 PM

My girlfriend of two years has been acting a lot different lately. And I haven't been able to figure out why until just lately. I have had her Facebook password forever and never wanted to spy, but I needed to know what's going on. I found that she has been talking to another guy quite a lot. He has been her friend for a long time and I know the guy, but in the message he said he loves her... and she said it back. I have no idea what to do. I love her so much, but I don't think she wants to be with me anymore. What should I do?

ABBY10 · Nov 25, 2011, 03:21 PM

awe =[ I'm sorry to hear that, but you should really talk to her about it, let her know you found out about this and if its been awhile why would she stay w/ you and tell another guy she loves him. It doesn't make sense but I can tell you forsure she is taking you for granted and will regret it.

mmresd · Nov 25, 2011, 03:51 PM

You break up with her, never contact her again, and start healing from this. Keep in mind that when you snoop everything you find will be considered wrong... maybe before you completely get rid of her, talk to her and see what the I love you's meant... maybe she is having problems, he is being supportive, and she appreciates his friendship. There are different types of love... but hope for the best only as you prepare yourself for the worse.

talaniman · Nov 26, 2011, 10:06 AM

Stop snooping and talk to her about her behavior and your feelings. You have no choice really.

geminichick · Nov 26, 2011, 10:23 AM

I think you should talk to her. Checking her Facebook account is not right. Honestly, how would you feel if someone was doing the same to you. You need to talk about how your affected by her behavior. If you don't get anywhere with her, I'm sorry to say that you need to walk away from the relationship. There are many other women out there. Good luck!

bantaman99 · Dec 5, 2011, 07:12 AM

Me and my girlfriend have been going through some rough times lately and we both agreed that we should take a break. It seems as though things might be getting better. I had planned on getting her, among a few other things, a $160 dollar pair of boots for Christmas. I just don't know if I should still get them or not. I just need some advice.

Wondergirl · Dec 5, 2011, 07:21 AM

Wow! That sounds awfully generous in light of not even being together with her. When's the break supposed to end?

Fr_Chuck · Dec 5, 2011, 09:34 AM

A "break" is normally just the start of being broke up, seldom does a couple ever get back together. It normally is just a nice way of a couple to break up with less fighting, and often one or both are soon dating others.

I would talk and see if and where the relationship is at. But my opinion is that no, you don't give any gifts, since at this point, she is your ex.

talaniman · Dec 5, 2011, 05:43 PM

Send her a card or text. Buying love doesn't replace honest dialogue, or influence a partner who needed a break.

bantaman99 · Dec 6, 2011, 07:28 AM

Well it isn't really buying love. I have been planning this for a while, but I'm not sure if I should or not. Or even if there is hope for us
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talaniman · Dec 6, 2011, 01:15 PM

Well if you are unsure, why spend all that cash for someone you are unsure of?

Wait until you are sure before you go out on that limb.