[secretmama]

My girlfriend and I (aged 21) have been going out for 8 months now (and hooking up for 4 months before that) and recently, in the past couple of months or so, she hasn't been too horny.

She rarely wants to hook up with me anymore and when we do hookup, it's usually because she feels obligated too or pressured too.

It's rare that she comes onto me or wants to hook up with me, she rarely initiates it.

When I've asked her about it she says that she doesn't find hooking up with me exciting or new anymore and that it's hard for her to get horny or in the mood.

At the start of the relationship we didn't hook up a ton, but still a lot more than we do now.

We've tried talking about why she can't get horny anymore or why I can't turn her on anymore but she doesn't know.

Sometimes we'll be in the middle of hooking up and she'll ask me to stop because it's not feeling good anymore, which is also odd.

Any ideas?

[Fr_Chuck]

No wonder, "hooking up" I don't see romance and affection but sex. And you admit you pressure her. Are you wanting a friend with benefits are a real girlfriend