[LoveBradPitt]

When does having a friend with benefit become a bad idea? I was having sex with this boy. It was the best sex of my life. And I know for a fact he loved it too. So we will wake up in the morning after sex he is in a rush and act like he didn't know me until he text my phone asking to come back over. Im okay with that because all I wanted was just sex no strings attached.

Then one he texts me out the blue saying he wanted me to leave, him alone and I called me kind of telling me off. Now I haven't heard from him in a week. I just wanted to know why he did me like that? Was it because he got bored? I'm pretty sure he will try to come back. I just wanted to know what went wrong. Because I thought it was every man dream to have good *** on a platter without the extra drama of a relationship.

[JudyKayTee]

When does having a friend with benefit become a bad idea ? I was having sex with this boy., it was the best sex of my life. And I know for a fact he loved it too. So we will wake up in the morning after sex he is in a rush and act like he didnt know me until he text my phone asking to come back over. Im okay with that because all I wanted was just sex no strings attached. Then one he texts me out the blue saying he wanted me to leave,him alone and I called me kind of telling me off. Now I havent heard from him in a week. I just wanted to know why he did me like that. Was it because he got bored., im pretty sure he will try to come back. I just wanted to know what went wrong. Because I thought it was every man dream to have good on a platter without the extra drama of a relationship.

Apparently your relationship was not without drama because instead of saying the friend with benefits has moved on you are asking this question.

I don't know what "I called me kind of telling me off" means.

Maybe he wants some feeling along with his sex.

[LoveBradPitt]

Im sorry for sounding illiterate touch screen is a . I meant I called him and he kind of told me off being really disrespectful. But at the same time he the one who told me he wasn't trying to be my boyfriend

[odinn7]

Maybe he found someone.

[LoveBradPitt]

Maybe he found someone.

That's a sad truth I don't want to except. but would it be naïve of me to not believe that ? I mean he is a ladies man. He actually told me that he have a girl but then I look on his Facebook and see that he was looking for new female friends.

[odinn7]

The only thing you can really do is either accept that it's over and move on or ask him to tell you what happened.

If it was me, I would accept it and forget about him.

[LoveBradPitt]

The only thing you can really do is either accept that it's over and move on or ask him to tell you what happened.

If it was me, I would accept it and forget about him.

Yea that's what I'm doing. it just sucks to be dropped out of a persons life for no reason at all

[odinn7]

There probably is a reason as you already know and unfortunately, no matter how you look at it, it's going to be a reason you don't want to hear... you know what I mean? So, for yourself, you are just better off to forget about him and not focus on the reason. The way he did this makes him sound like a jerk anyway so the way I see it, you're better off. You may not know it yet, but one day you will realize that this was a good thing.

[LoveBradPitt]

There probably is a reason as you already know and unfortunately, no matter how you look at it, it's going to be a reason you don't want to hear....you know what I mean? So, for yourself, you are just better off to forget about him and not focus on the reason. The way he did this makes him sound like a jerk anyway so the way I see it, you're better off. You may not know it yet, but one day you will realize that this was a good thing.

You are absolutely right. and the more time has passed the more I realize it is a good thing because he is a natural born. I knew he was trouble from the start so its good I got cut off before I caught feelings for a dude like him. Im just going to miss the sex it was awesome lol

[JudyKayTee]

Yea thats what im doing., it just sucks to be dropped out of a persons life for no reason at all

I thought that's what friends with benefits is all about - either one of you moves on at any time, no bad feelings, no questions.

It's about the sex.