Ask Me Help Desk - Why Did He Leave?

Why Did He Leave?

When does having a friend with benefit become a bad idea? I was having sex with this boy. It was the best sex of my life. And I know for a fact he loved it too. So we will wake up in the morning after sex he is in a rush and act like he didn't know me until he text my phone asking to come back over. Im okay with that because all I wanted was just sex no strings attached.

Then one he texts me out the blue saying he wanted me to leave, him alone and I called me kind of telling me off. Now I haven't heard from him in a week. I just wanted to know why he did me like that? Was it because he got bored? I'm pretty sure he will try to come back. I just wanted to know what went wrong. Because I thought it was every man dream to have good *** on a platter without the extra drama of a relationship.

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Originally Posted by LoveBradPitt

When does having a friend with benefit become a bad idea ? I was having sex with this boy., it was the best sex of my life. And I know for a fact he loved it too. So we will wake up in the morning after sex he is in a rush and act like he didnt know me until he text my phone asking to come back over. Im okay with that because all I wanted was just sex no strings attached. Then one he texts me out the blue saying he wanted me to leave,him alone and I called me kind of telling me off. Now I havent heard from him in a week. I just wanted to know why he did me like that. Was it because he got bored., im pretty sure he will try to come back. I just wanted to know what went wrong. Because I thought it was every man dream to have good on a platter without the extra drama of a relationship.

Apparently your relationship was not without drama because instead of saying the friend with benefits has moved on you are asking this question.

I don't know what "I called me kind of telling me off" means.

Maybe he wants some feeling along with his sex.

Im sorry for sounding illiterate touch screen is a . I meant I called him and he kind of told me off being really disrespectful. But at the same time he the one who told me he wasn't trying to be my boyfriend

Maybe he found someone.

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Originally Posted by odinn7

Maybe he found someone.

That's a sad truth I don't want to except. but would it be naïve of me to not believe that ? I mean he is a ladies man. He actually told me that he have a girl but then I look on his Facebook and see that he was looking for new female friends.

The only thing you can really do is either accept that it's over and move on or ask him to tell you what happened.

If it was me, I would accept it and forget about him.

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Originally Posted by odinn7

The only thing you can really do is either accept that it's over and move on or ask him to tell you what happened.

If it was me, I would accept it and forget about him.

Yea that's what I'm doing. it just sucks to be dropped out of a persons life for no reason at all

There probably is a reason as you already know and unfortunately, no matter how you look at it, it's going to be a reason you don't want to hear... you know what I mean? So, for yourself, you are just better off to forget about him and not focus on the reason. The way he did this makes him sound like a jerk anyway so the way I see it, you're better off. You may not know it yet, but one day you will realize that this was a good thing.

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Originally Posted by odinn7

There probably is a reason as you already know and unfortunately, no matter how you look at it, it's going to be a reason you don't want to hear....you know what I mean? So, for yourself, you are just better off to forget about him and not focus on the reason. The way he did this makes him sound like a jerk anyway so the way I see it, you're better off. You may not know it yet, but one day you will realize that this was a good thing.

You are absolutely right. and the more time has passed the more I realize it is a good thing because he is a natural born. I knew he was trouble from the start so its good I got cut off before I caught feelings for a dude like him. Im just going to miss the sex it was awesome lol

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Originally Posted by LoveBradPitt

Yea thats what im doing., it just sucks to be dropped out of a persons life for no reason at all

I thought that's what friends with benefits is all about - either one of you moves on at any time, no bad feelings, no questions.

It's about the sex.