[needhelptopleas]

My boyfriend of 2 years doesn't want to have sex anymore. How can I turn him on? I have tried many things. We watch porn together I play with myself while laying naked in the bed next to him. I have even played with a toy in front of him and nothing seems to turn him on. Is there any hope for our relationship?

[smoothy]

And how old are you both?

Realistically... at two years only... is telling me the relationship is at a dead end... and when that happens this early into one... it be rarely be revived.

[Cat1864]

Have you discussed this with him? Has he told you why he doesn't want sex?

How long has he been disinterested in sex? Have there been any changes in his life such as medical issues, medicines, stress, exhaustion, feeling pressured to preform when he isn't in the mood, etc. How often are you trying to get him in the mood?

Is there hope for your relationship? I don't know. I don't know how much he is willing to communicate or both of you are willing to compromise. Is there enough of a relationship without sex to keep you content and happy with him?

Do you love him? Is love enough to overcome the possibility that for some reason he may never be sexually active again?

If you have been very blatant about wanting sex, you might try backing off for a couple of weeks. Show him affection and intimacy without making the contact about sex. Take the pressure off and see if that changes anything.