[Miss_InTrouble]

Can having anal sex cause problems for my behind? If yes what type? And can it cause long term problems?

[JudyKayTee]

Can having anal sex cause problems for my behind? if yes what type? and can it cause long term problems?

The "secrets" are lubrication and relaxation - here's some good info: How to Have Anal Sex For the First Time | YourTango

[smoothy]

Edit: Unless you do things really, REALLY wrong... there are no long term problems... the sphincter is a just another muscle and good muscle tone is always a good thing.

[JudyKayTee]

How old are you Miss In Trouble?

19, been living with boyfriend for 3-1/2 years.

(I'm psychic)

[smoothy]

19, been living with boyfriend for 3-1/2 years.

(I'm psychic)

Yeah... stumbled upon that going through threads after I answered this one... I generally don't like looking for that sort of info. You posted as I was editing my thread.


To the OP... general rule here... if it hurts you are doing it wrong... as in one or more of the following - too much, too fast, and/or too little lube. The sphincter is semi-involuntary... but with time you can learn to consciencely control it... and thus not have contractions that are the root of most pain as you are just learning.

He needs to trim and file his nails... if he has really rough skin on his fingers, he needs to consider latex or nytril gloves (and lots of lube)... and condoms would not be a bad idea.

[JudyKayTee]

Yeah....stumbled upon that going through threads after I answered this one....I generally don't like looking for that sort of info. You posted as I was editing my thread.

So you don't believe I'm psychic?

[smoothy]

So you don't believe I'm psychic?

I tell my wife sometimes I think she's psychotic... but that's not the same thing. ;-)

[JudyKayTee]

I tell my wife sometimes I think she's psychotic........... but thats not the same thing. ;-)

Laughing!

[Miss_InTrouble]

Thank you. You've all been very helpful