[lawahn]

My husband had an affair and the girl is saying she is pregnant. He told her he did not want it she is having it anyway. So now what?

[RickJ]

Wait and see what happens.

[lawahn]

What does that have to do with child support?

She did it to hurt me so now a child is coming into the world because of payback. He said he does not want it and she kept it anyway. She has 4 children already and she can not take care if them. One of them already leaves with me. She is all about money and told her oldest son that lives with us that if he don't want to pay for you he will pay for this one in my stomach. She had a man living with her and he is not sure it is his anyway. Both of them said the used a condom. She just had a baby with the man that was living with her. That baby just turned 1 years old. I not say he will do his part but why go get something you can not pay for then make someone else pay for it when you knew you could not pay for it yourself. I am just saying...

[RickJ]

One of her kids lives with you? So you and this girl share your husband?

[lawahn]

One of her kids lives with you? So you and this girl share your husband?

He had kids with her and yes I can say he cheated with her. We are trying to work it out. The girl has been a pain in my u know for years. He wad with her before me and she was mad that he married me and not her. I am not making excuse for him because he was wrong but thus girl just wants to hurt me that's what she said. I know that in the end with god on my side I will be fine. She is only hurting herself not me because If I leave him today or any day its just me and my two boys. She does not work and depends on the Monet from the fathers if her kids. I have a real good job and I am going to school.

[RickJ]

All you can do is wait it out and see what happens.

[lawahn]

All you can do is wait it out and see what happens.

Thanks some times it is nice to hear from someone who does not know me.

[RickJ]

You are welcome.

[AK lawyer]

... She ... told her oldest son ... that if he don't want to pay for u he will pay for this one in my stomach. ....

Evidently she doesn't know the difference between a stomach and a womb.

The bottom line here is that your husband has no choice whether the woman he had sex with is going to keep the baby or not.

[ScottGem]

If he didn't want the child then he shouldn't have had sex with the woman. He contributed to conceiving this child, therefore he has a responsibility to support this child. If she applies for child support, then he will pay.

I can't imagine staying with a man that has fathered multiple children with another woman while married to you. But you didn't ask about that.

[JudyKayTee]

Evidently she doesn't know the difference between a stomach and a womb.

The bottom line here is that your husband has no choice whether the woman he had sex with is going to keep the baby or not.

Let's HOPE OP isn't going to nursing school - here, I'll stand in the reddie line, behind you.

The husband had one choice here - keep his pants on or don't keep his pants on. He chose the former.

Now he pays.

I never, ever understand - two women, one man, and the women turn on each OTHER while he's probably off with a third (or, in this case, the fourth or fifth) woman!

Has your husband ever considered getting snipped?