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kidster · Jul 24, 2012, 03:43 AM

When a guy motorboats you, does he like you or is he using you as a sexual object?
We were at a party and a male co-worker/friend and I ended up being in a room alone dancing and he 'motorboatéd me and then laughed. I was so shocked that I laughed and kept on dancing afterwards.
I see him at work everyday and I'm not sure what to think about it.
What are guys thinking or want to happen when they do that? By the way I think he's cute but still... not sure where I stand on the matter.

NandyD · Jul 24, 2012, 04:44 AM

Ummmm what's "motorboating"?

J_9 · Jul 24, 2012, 05:12 AM

He sounds like an idiot.

ScottGem · Jul 24, 2012, 05:22 AM

Originally Posted by NandyD

Ummmm what's "motorboating"?

Thank you for asking! Curious minds want to know.

The only thing that comes to mind is what I used to do with my baby daughter, which was put my mouth on her bare tummy and blow.

J_9 · Jul 24, 2012, 05:25 AM

It's when a man puts his mouth between a woman's breasts, moves his head back and forth rapidly while making a motorboat sound with his lips.

This guy sounds like a total tool to me.

ScottGem · Jul 24, 2012, 06:20 AM

I asked the new girl in our office what it was and she said she knows but was too embarrassed to explain. ;)

Yeah, that seems over the top behavior for a someone not in a intimate relationship with someone. I would ignore it and not get alone with him.

CravenMorhead · Jul 24, 2012, 07:24 AM

Drunk goings on. I wouldn't place any meaning on it. I wouldn't avoid him at work but I would be alone with him again or party with him. I am not sure what made him think this was all right but that could be attributed to drunken over excitement. I have seen that more than once.

I wouldn't take it more than a, "Don't speak about what happens when we're drunk." event. You can talk to him but that might be more awkward than anything. I think this is going ot be one of those You reap what you sow kind of things.

kidster · Jul 24, 2012, 11:41 PM

Originally Posted by ScottGem

I asked the new girl in our office what it was and she said she knows but was too embarrassed to explain. ;)

Yeah, that seems over the top behavior for a someone not in a intimate relationship with someone. I would ignore it and not get alone with him.

Lol, yep, I can see why the new girl would feel embarrassed, haha.
Thanks for the advice :)

BethVader · Jul 24, 2012, 11:54 PM

No, it just means he likes BOOBS. Like EVERY guy.
Don't read any more into it than that. And trust me, you don't want
A guy who motorboats a girl he isn't dating anyway.

kidster · Jul 25, 2012, 12:03 AM

Originally Posted by CravenMorhead

Drunk goings on. I wouldn't place any meaning on it. I wouldn't avoid him at work but I would be alone with him again or party with him. I am not sure what made him think this was alright but that could be attributed to drunken over excitement. I have seen that more than once.

I wouldn't take it more than a, "Don't speak about what happens when we're drunk." event. You can talk to him but that might be more awkward than anything. I think this is going ot be one of those You reap what you sow kind of things.

Thanks for that, unfortunately it has been bought up at work by other coworkers how hands on he is with me when he's drunk and I haven't told them about the motorboating. So if it happens again might have to bring it up with him. These puppies' are for privleged people only! Haha

kidster · Jul 25, 2012, 12:19 AM

Originally Posted by BethVader

No, it just means he likes BOOBS. Like EVERY guy.
Don't read any more into it than that. And trust me, you don't want
a guy who motorboats a girl he isn't dating anyway.

Thanks, I keep wondering why he does it to me, and what he expects me to do?