When a guy motorboats you, does he like you or is he using you as a sexual object?
We were at a party and a male co-worker/friend and I ended up being in a room alone dancing and he 'motorboatéd me and then laughed. I was so shocked that I laughed and kept on dancing afterwards.
I see him at work everyday and I'm not sure what to think about it.
What are guys thinking or want to happen when they do that? By the way I think he's cute but still... not sure where I stand on the matter.

Ummmm what's "motorboating"?

He sounds like an idiot.

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Originally Posted by NandyD

Ummmm what's "motorboating"?

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Thank you for asking! Curious minds want to know.

The only thing that comes to mind is what I used to do with my baby daughter, which was put my mouth on her bare tummy and blow.

It's when a man puts his mouth between a woman's breasts, moves his head back and forth rapidly while making a motorboat sound with his lips.

This guy sounds like a total tool to me.

I asked the new girl in our office what it was and she said she knows but was too embarrassed to explain. ;)

Yeah, that seems over the top behavior for a someone not in a intimate relationship with someone. I would ignore it and not get alone with him.

Drunk goings on. I wouldn't place any meaning on it. I wouldn't avoid him at work but I would be alone with him again or party with him. I am not sure what made him think this was all right but that could be attributed to drunken over excitement. I have seen that more than once.

I wouldn't take it more than a, "Don't speak about what happens when we're drunk." event. You can talk to him but that might be more awkward than anything. I think this is going ot be one of those You reap what you sow kind of things.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

I asked the new girl in our office what it was and she said she knows but was too embarrassed to explain. ;)

Yeah, that seems over the top behavior for a someone not in a intimate relationship with someone. I would ignore it and not get alone with him.

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Lol, yep, I can see why the new girl would feel embarrassed, haha.
Thanks for the advice :)

No, it just means he likes BOOBS. Like EVERY guy.
Don't read any more into it than that. And trust me, you don't want
A guy who motorboats a girl he isn't dating anyway.

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Originally Posted by CravenMorhead

Drunk goings on. I wouldn't place any meaning on it. I wouldn't avoid him at work but I would be alone with him again or party with him. I am not sure what made him think this was alright but that could be attributed to drunken over excitement. I have seen that more than once.

I wouldn't take it more than a, "Don't speak about what happens when we're drunk." event. You can talk to him but that might be more awkward than anything. I think this is going ot be one of those You reap what you sow kind of things.

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Thanks for that, unfortunately it has been bought up at work by other coworkers how hands on he is with me when he's drunk and I haven't told them about the motorboating. So if it happens again might have to bring it up with him. These puppies' are for privleged people only! Haha

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Originally Posted by BethVader

No, it just means he likes BOOBS. Like EVERY guy.
Don't read any more into it than that. And trust me, you don't want
a guy who motorboats a girl he isn't dating anyway.

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Thanks, I keep wondering why he does it to me, and what he expects me to do?