[geoffb]

Ok me and my girlfriend have been dating just about a year and everything was really really good. Theb one week I got this really good job opportunity in a different state and I said yes to going, so after a week of her being very sad she tells me we need a break/space 2 weeks before I leave so that was horrible news to me.. I convinced her to try to do long distance.. so the next day we are at her house and we get in a fight and I called her something mean, that lead to me getting kicked out.. the next night she got off work and it was about midnight told me she was staying in . Twenty minutes later I get a text that says she is going out I got upset cause I wanted to talk to her and she theb responed back that we are done and that I don't trust her, but in all honesty I do trust her... she then tells ne we are on a break agai and she needs space.. so I say OK but theb I give into texting or trying to call.. its been about 4 days since all this started and its killing me I wabt to talk to her all the time I then find out that she has been talking to this guy that lives in cali we live in sc over the internet.. she has always wanted to go to cali and is going on Sunday to visit and see of she likes it. Anyway I caught her texting him one night when we ran into each other abd I was like what the heck.. she tells me the guy is just a friend and he is cute but she is not interested.. I really want to believe thst I just don't get why she will talk to him and not me.. so another thing is two nights ago we ran into each other at a party I pulled her aside and tried to talk she didn't really want anything to do with me at all.. so the party is rolling to an end and my ride left me so I asked if I could tag along she said yes against her will.. well she drops me off at a friends and comes in for a last drink so things get akward and she trues to sneak out you stop her and we talk , she told me how misrable she is and she does miss me a lot we hugged and even kissed.. she told me that I need to get my together before we should talk again.. so today I called her we talked for an hour I thought things were good, so after that I texted her about two hours later abd she said she was annoyedim really confused... how many days sgould I go with no contact with her and by the way the job didn't work out... but what are yalls opinion on this how much space should I give