[5559]

My boyfriend of two months is become controlling trying to change me cut out all my friends and when I break up with him he threatens to kill himself so I end up taking him back. I do care about him but he is breaking me down. He wants to know what I do from morning to night and goes as far as to tell me how to dress all the way down to my undies help?

[Wondergirl]

Break up with him by going total No Contact. Have nothing to do with him -- no texts, no calls, no personal contact. Don't give him any opportunity to argue, apologize, discuss, plea, cry. Moan, promise, threaten, or work on your sympathies.

[5559]

Thank you I broke up with him in person but what drove me to it was when I was on the phone with a bank loan person when he became Angry that I was not paying attention to him and he spit in my face and then acted like I asked for it. I was done he started with the I going to kill myself but I walked out and didn't look back thank you for your advice