My boyfriend of two months is become controlling trying to change me cut out all my friends and when I break up with him he threatens to kill himself so I end up taking him back. I do care about him but he is breaking me down. He wants to know what I do from morning to night and goes as far as to tell me how to dress all the way down to my undies help?

Break up with him by going total No Contact. Have nothing to do with him -- no texts, no calls, no personal contact. Don't give him any opportunity to argue, apologize, discuss, plea, cry. Moan, promise, threaten, or work on your sympathies.

Thank you I broke up with him in person but what drove me to it was when I was on the phone with a bank loan person when he became Angry that I was not paying attention to him and he spit in my face and then acted like I asked for it. I was done he started with the I going to kill myself but I walked out and didn't look back thank you for your advice