[Silvernights4]

Well I'll start by saying we've been dating almost 6 years(September) recently he's been acting very secretive with being on his cell phone, for example he'll be texting someone when I'm not in the room and when I enter the room he sends the message and closes the phone immediately, I've tried talking to him about why he keeps doing that and he says no reason it's gotten to the point where I believe something really bad is going on behind my back. (I should mention we've been living together 3 years) there's times where I would walk through the door and he'd quickly wrap up a phone call or text. I think he's cheating on me I don't have any proof but I have a bad gut feeling. We've had some problems in our relationship in the past and I have tried to get over them and move on but every time I try he does something very immature for me to feel like nothings changing. I'll give an example of what he did today. He doesn't have a Valid drivers license because it got suspended due to so many tickets (fines) on it. Well he finished his suspension but still owes fines and so he we went to his parents place and took his car and drove it to our house. I asked him why he's trying to break the law by driving illegally and he yelled out "mind your own business!!!!" he later started drinking and I discreetly took his keys away because I was afraid he might drive drunk. But he always picks little fights and sometimes as of lately calls me crazy for thinking he's cheating and I'm screwed up in the head and just a mess. These things hurt me and I tell him but it doesn't seem like he cares anymore about me. I don't know what to do I just need some guidance and advice.

[hauntinghelper]

HONESTLY, this guy does not sound like a keeper. 6 years or not, this relationship may have run it's course a while ago. You know, there are relationships out there that most of that stuff rarely happens... you may want to think about that. Don't settle.