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    Jul 11, 2012, 02:41 PM
    Should I just wait and let him call ?
    We been in this relationship for a year and one month. (We broke up for 4 months and recently got back together ).It's a long distance relationship and I moved away a couple of weeks ago and now it's like we hardly talk. I asked him does he want to be in this relationship still and he always says why do you keep asking me that . Then I say well sound like you don't want to talk so call me back whenever, he didn't. Should I just leave it alone and let him call on his own . People always tell me if someone really cares leave them alone and if they call that means they still do. But then he says if you cared you would hit me up. I feel like I'm in the relationship and I'm the one that's hurting and working double. Any advise ?
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    Jul 11, 2012, 02:55 PM
    Did you ever solve the issues from the first break up?
    Sounds to me like you are an option to him. He does not seem to care one way or the other if you talk.
    Long distant relationships are hard enough, if you are feeling like you are pulling teeth to communicate with him, leave him alone. It is not worth it.

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