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    Aishwarya101 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 7, 2012, 10:01 AM
    I am very confused with my relationships with 2 persons. I need help!
    Well. I tried a lot to make things go with the flow by myself. But not anymore. Here it goes-

    I am in a relationship with two guys at the same time. Here is the first guy, whom I met 4 years back. I was with ONLY him for 2 years. We loved each other very very much. We planned to get married in the future. We were like actually married couple. He loved me like crazy so did I. (we weren't in the same college).
    After those two years, here comes the new guy (senior in my college). I kind of liked him at first (just crush). But later however I started talking to him over phone. We talked for about hours. Sometimes the whole night. He was very soft polite and caring.

    During this he knew I had a boyfriend and I came to know he had a girlfriend too, but out of the country. She was out only 3, 4 months back (they were in relationship since 5 years according to him).We started going out. My first boyfriend doesn't know about this. And after that he showed tremendous love towards me and I totally fell for him. I started ignoring my first boyfriend and stopped seeing him frequently.
    And here I am completely in love with this one guy.
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    Mobley119 Posts: 142, Reputation: 6
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    Jul 7, 2012, 10:51 AM
    You need to tell your first boyfriend that you met someone else. It's not fair to him to think that you are exclusive, that you love only him, when you don't. Unless he knows?
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    Jul 7, 2012, 06:18 PM
    Tell the poor fool of a boyfriend you are a lying cheating player, and you have found another lying cheating player to be with. He will understand how you have saved him from marrying a lying cheating player, and be grateful for your concern. Tell him today, get it over with because he deserves to know how you are stabbing him in the back.

    That sounds fair tome!

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