[hatt99]

Hi I met this girl on myspace about 6 months ago & started talking by phone about 1 month into things.the girl always says she's going to meet me never does she lives like 70 miles from me.every time were supposed to meet something comes up on her end usually something unbelievable then she always texts me I love you & I miss you other stuff comes up to I'm the top of the list etc so I don't know what to do walk away,keep the faith & hope everything works out I really like talking to her & the things she says so I'm confused about this.thanx

[t5styles333]

The person is a FLAKE! Doesn't really matter how you two started your interaction, that's not cool. Don't tolerate that, seems to me she love's your attention more than she loves you. Good luck, I'd move on.

Ps. I met a girl on myspace before, she flew me out to L.A. to meet her. I live 500 miles away from her. It didn't last but at least we met without any games.

[JBeaucaire]

Just because you met her on Myspace is no reason to treat her any differently than you would a local person.

Act with nobility and purpose as you deal with her and require the same in return. It's not "needy" to require people to follow through on your promises.

And as with a local person, someone who continuously let you down would get less and less of your time until the got none at all, correct? This is exactly the same.

Don't let the stupid computer trick you into acting stupid and ignoring how you ARE being treated. This stuff is real.

When it's time to move on, make sure you are moving on TO something, not just blowing her off for nothing. Start the process now to reopen the doors to meeting other people.

Her attitude may improve GREATLY when you start talking about your other dates... she may act hurt, but that's not your issue. Be her friend, act friendly. For there to ever be anything more between you, it will HAVE to come off the computer. If she doesn't do that, then you have your answer and her "hurt" over you dating others is dishonest on her part and you can ignore it.

So, be smart. If you're still single, take advantage of all the avenues single people have and minimize your computer time with her.