[nicole0077]

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 2 yrs. We loved each other a lot but often had fights over little things & he would temporary break up with me (like me refusing to eat fish-which is a very imp part of his culture). It was a Saturday and my last exam was over, I couldn't wait to spend the evening with him. We were having a very nice evening when I passed a comment about his family having no property of their own and staying in a rented apartment. This upset him a lot and he broke up with me. We had no contact for a week and I missed him. The following Saturday evening, he stopped by to collect his stuff from my place when I cried & apologized but he stuck to his decision. He was going to a pub with his friends (two guys). I felt sad and depressed that night and requested him to let me come along too to which he agreed. I tried getting his attention the whole time there but he ignored me & spoke to his friends about another girl he found hot and how she'd be a perfect fit in the family. I was heart broken & I allowed myself to get absolutely drunk and while they were dropping me back home, my boyfriend sat in front with one of his friends who was driving while I sat behind with the other.. now I don't remember anything in the car but he saw me give his friend a peck on his lips from the rear view mirror.The next day he calls me all sorts of names, tells his parents too.. he said he would've gotten back if I hadn't done this.. he says I cheated on him and I must be his and get out of my skin to get him back. Its been 2 months now and he hasn't gotten back but treats me like his . I have quit drinking out of my own will. I really love the guy, what must I do?

[Homegirl 50]

He sounds pretty controlling to me. You will always be doing something wrong. He'll dump you and you'll beg and he'll take you back. That does not sound like a good relationship to me.
I think you leave him alone and start getting a life apart from him.