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  • Jul 4, 2012, 02:53 PM
    nicole0077
    Is my boyfriend justified here?
    My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 2 yrs. We loved each other a lot but often had fights over little things & he would temporary break up with me (like me refusing to eat fish-which is a very imp part of his culture). It was a Saturday and my last exam was over, I couldn't wait to spend the evening with him. We were having a very nice evening when I passed a comment about his family having no property of their own and staying in a rented apartment. This upset him a lot and he broke up with me. We had no contact for a week and I missed him. The following Saturday evening, he stopped by to collect his stuff from my place when I cried & apologized but he stuck to his decision. He was going to a pub with his friends (two guys). I felt sad and depressed that night and requested him to let me come along too to which he agreed. I tried getting his attention the whole time there but he ignored me & spoke to his friends about another girl he found hot and how she'd be a perfect fit in the family. I was heart broken & I allowed myself to get absolutely drunk and while they were dropping me back home, my boyfriend sat in front with one of his friends who was driving while I sat behind with the other.. now I don't remember anything in the car but he saw me give his friend a peck on his lips from the rear view mirror.The next day he calls me all sorts of names, tells his parents too.. he said he would've gotten back if I hadn't done this.. he says I cheated on him and I must be his and get out of my skin to get him back. Its been 2 months now and he hasn't gotten back but treats me like his . I have quit drinking out of my own will. I really love the guy, what must I do?
  • Jul 4, 2012, 10:07 PM
    Homegirl 50
    He sounds pretty controlling to me. You will always be doing something wrong. He'll dump you and you'll beg and he'll take you back. That does not sound like a good relationship to me.
    I think you leave him alone and start getting a life apart from him.

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