[mrzvanna]

I've been talking to this guy since December and I really like him but the problem is that he's really Hott and cold. One day we talk all day and the next I don't hear from him. But we recently started talking again after one of his cold spells and it really seemed like our relationship was finally going to move to the next level. It seemed like we were both happy and I even gave him a bj( that's as far as we've gone) and we made plans to hang out yesterday. Well I was out of town visiting my sister for the weekend and while I was there she wanted me to go on a double date with her I didn't want to go but she made me feel bad so I said I'd go. Once I said I'd go I told my guy straight up that my sister wanted me to go on a double date with her and he said OK just for me to come visit him before I went out that night. And I did then I went out and told him is call or text when I get back. (This was Saturday) But I didn't text until Sunday mornin because I got hone late and didn't want to wake him and I told him that.and yesterday we were going to meet up after church at about 2 and he never called or texted or returned mine and at about 10 that night he said that he couldn't make it and he thought is be busy because I had a 'late night' last night. I think that he thinks I had sex but I really didn't I'm a black girl and I don't date white guys at all because Im not attracted to them at all.and the blind date was white. I tried to.tell him all this but he said ' whatever do Wat you want' and ha said he'd call later because he was driving but no call or text and still today no call or text. Was I wrong? And if so how do I make this right.

[karm3n23]

No your not wrong because your not his girlfriend so why should he be mad? From my prospective he's just with you when ye wants to be like you're a choice and maybe because you gave him bj he wants to be around you when he wants something which is just wrong. I hope everything works out for you.

[Homegirl 50]

Girl the guy is a loser. The only thing you did wrong was give some guy a BJ that treats you hot and cold. He's not even your boyfriend.
Leave this creep alone. Have a bit more respect for yourself.