[loverboii22]

Ok one day a random number popped up and I texted it asking who it was, it was my gfs ex from a while back, so I asked what he wanted, and he responded back with how were you and I miss you. I as the boyfriend texted back and said there's nothing for you here stop texting, then it escalated and I got� green lighted so at the end of the day I looked my girlfriend straight in the eyes and said promise me you won't talk or text him. And she said I promise, next day comes he text her and she talks to him (at first I'm unaware), later on her best friend Elizabeth text her like three times saying hey. I asked why are you not texting back she stated she was mad at her.

The next week she picks me up I got bored and grabbed her phone and seen Elizabeth so I wanted to see what they (girls) talk about, then she went nuts attacking me for phone but I said no, and inside she knew we were done, so while reading the text I found out she was talking to her ex, it was little talk but he told her he missed her, and she said well we can't be together but maybe in the future. And I was pissed so I told her it was over. But I love her soooooo much I made her my world, I fell in love with her. So when I broke up she started crying and saying nooo it was a mistake it won't happen again.

And she came to my house to try fixing it. But I got really hurt and I love her. Just scared to get hurt again please help. It might b a little kid story but I'm 17 and have been with her for a year, please help

[Outlaws2326]

You do have a right to be mad, even if you do get back with her do you think you could trust her again? A good relationship should have a solid base rooted in trust. You said you're 17 and said she is your everything, but she did break a promise and tried to hide it. Although she may seem like your everything right now you should give it time.

[talaniman]

Let this be a good lesson my friend as you could have avoided the whole thing by letting her handle her own business and you not being afraid of the competition.

You hurt yourself, and because you are afraid now of being hurt again that way, you stop yourself from enjoying your girl.

Get over yourself, and apologize for being an immature dork, and stay away from her phone. Relationships are always a risk that you manage by facing challenges by being cool, calm, collected and in control of yourself, no matter what situation pops up.

You never tell a female who they can, or can't talk to, or hold them to silly promises to keep your ego stroked, and NEVER snoop. Had you not been so insecure, you would have told her the ex called your number looking for her, and dropped it.

And you never wrap your whole life around any one ever, as that's a recipe to be desperate, clingy, insecure, AND ALONE.

Call her and apologize, and see what she says.

[Fr_Chuck]

The fastest way to make her call him, is to tell her she can not. If anyone made this happen, you did

I have to be honest, your actions seem my 14 year old, than 17 year old.

Tell her you are sorry for being a jerk, tell her it was all your fault and see what happens.