[WeAreScientists]

I have been dating my girlfriend(18 years old) for 2 and a half years now. We started as best friends and throughout the relationship she has broken up with me twice for small amounts of time due to fighting a lot and losing interest in the relationship. We got back together about 10 months ago, and even though we still love each other I'm feeling doubtful that anything has gotten any better. My best friend (18 years old and a girl), has been my best friend for 5 years now, maybe a little more and we do a lot together. We have dealt with eachothers break ups and going to out to dinner like it was a date. We both love baseball, a lot of the same music, and have shared a lot of memorable experiences together. Long story short EVERY time we hangout together is incredibly fun! We have a lot of traditions and no matter what we do we have a good time. About 2 months ago I told her after we hungout one night that I was starting to have feelings for her and I wondered if it was mutual, she said she didn't see me as more than a friend. After about a week we started hanging out regularly again and now I feel there is a lot of sexual tension between us. Last time we hungout was 2 nights ago and we were both in my car and started making out. Afterwards we didn't really talk about it other than she said she liked how things were between us and she didn't want things to get complicated between us and I agreed. I've actually liked her for sometime now and know its real on my end. I think about her a lot, even when I'm with my girlfriend. I guess I'm asking what you think? And I know I probably should end my relationship. Do you think it would be worth it to try and pursue a relationship with my best friend?

[sgree175]

Mate this may only apply to aussie girls like myself but, your mate is verry important and stuff like that .My best mate is a guy and we hangout like theirs nothing to it,he admitted to me if he didn't have a girl he'd date me also he said "would it be wierd if said u r attractive' my reaction "in what way" him"as in I'm attracted 2 u" very awkward but sweet and I'm deffinately attracted to him .what u should do is talk to your mate and let her know that you are into her and even tell her you want on this site to ask an aussie girl what to do.GOOD LUCK!!

[JudyKayTee]

I think you need to ed one relationship before you begin another. Only you know if it's worth taking a chance - or not.

Usually "I don't want things to get complicated" translates to "I like you but not as a boyfriend." In this case, I don't know.

Keep in mind that the other advice is from a 14-year who really didn't address your question. There's a world of difference between being 14 and wondering how to attract "male species" and being 18 in a relationship for 2-1/2 years.

[sgree175]

Look Judy it seems you are very intelligent and I appoligise for my words all I want is to help like you