[lover953]

4 months ago I broke up with my ex. He was a very sweet loving guy but the reason we broke up was because of me. We were together for 2 years.

Since then I have been dating a old friend of mine that fancied me when I was with my ex. We have dated before when we were younger. He treats me like a princess and loves me the way I am so he says. I love him but I can't stop thinking about my ex.

What should I do, stay with my boyfriend or go back to my ex?? I really don't know. Please help :(

[C0bra_M3nace]

For one, you should never go back with an ex. They're an ex for a reason sweetheart, it didn't work out the first time so why should it a second.

But first things first, don't get into a relationship until you've completely gotten over your ex, which will take time. Getting into something serious with someone while you're still fighting feelings of an ex can be poisonous to a relationship.

Go completely no contact with your ex, don't message, text, talk or even think about him. Then get busy, hang out with friends, try some new things, find a new hobby just stay active, soon enough you'll let go of him and lose your feelings for him.

When you are over your ex, and can accept that it was the past and is over, then and only then can you move onto a new relationship. It will take time, but time is your friend, and only he can help you heal.

I wish you the best of luck.

[talaniman]

Maybe you moved into this new guy before you were over the old guy. Don't go backward though, just give yourself more time before you get serious. A new boyfriend doesn't help things, but having someone give you attention just feels good.

How old are you?

[cbunny20]

You probably just broke up with your ex because you you started to get bored or curious. And a new boyfriend is not going to help. Break up with your boyfriend and stay single for a while. Give yourself time to think about every thing and the way you feel.