[katielove59]

I met guy named Kerry on Dec 16, 2011 he was telling me from the start he didn't know if he wanted to be in a relationship. He told me he was never married. I found out few months later he was married but separated for 1 year, but now his wife has filed for divorce. He said he lied to me about being married because he knew I wouldn't want to be involved with him. I found out he wasn't being honest with me about being married even before he admitted it. I went on a date with 2 other guys both who I've dated in the past. I didn't feel I needed to discuss what I was doing with Kerry because we didn't know each other to long and I felt he was lying to me about something major in his life. Over time me and kerry fell in love with each other. He looked through my phone 1 night and found old texts and pics from when I went out with other guys in beginning. Now he says I cheated on him, has been calling me horrible names and tells me almost everyday he doesn't know if he can forget what I've done and feels betrayed! I feel horrorible over this! I didn't know in beginning I was going to fall in love with him like I did and I knew he was lying to me about being married even thseperated. I don't know what to do. Please give me some advice. I feel awful. I don't want to be without him but he's fighting with me all the time and calls me a compulsive liar. Help!!

[Ally257]

Honestly he should stop being so hypocritical... And grow up if he can't see the fact that he made a terrible mistake at the beginning and yet at the end of the day you still took his sorry back(no offense) you need to think about replacing him ASAP , honestly you don't need someone like that and you shouldn't do anything.. It was a mistake on your part for not deleting the old texts or pics but he needs to calm down and stop blowing it out of proportion like a little sissy just go on a do you.. If he's still harassing you change your number and all contact info , you need to worry about your well begin and not his stupidity !

[C0bra_M3nace]

Clearly you both have no trust for one another, and with no trust, there is no relationship. Period. You need to get out, leave him and move on. It should be easy all things considered, there must be a point where you take the verbal abuse and say "No more!".