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    ShawtyBaby Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 29, 2010, 06:30 PM
    Relationship Advice Needed.
    I am in a relationship with a lad since late October. Recently I was out drinking with him and his mates. They were high on drug including my Boyfriend. He knows I do not like drugs and never ever did. I was scared to say the least. After it all, I was shaken by what had taken place. That same night he reconed he could see some-one who had died. I didn't take it well as I have lost a loved one ( sister ) as well. The next day I gave him a choice me or the drugs. *Its weed he is on* his mates on stronger. He choose the weed. He was upset as I left so I gave him the up full and said do it on front of me ever again and I am away. Thinking about it and what has happened I don't think I want to be with him. Its like weed is more important. I do not want to be around sum1 with drugs, my last relationship was the same. I dono if I should end it and how. My feelings for him have just left!
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    Dec 29, 2010, 06:41 PM
    Really leave, this isn't going to change, and he's got a lot of enablers around him. The worst of drug or alcohol use is that you are never really sure which version of them you're talking to, and their perception of you is constantly changing. They forget your conversations, misinterpret things you say, make stupid choices, blow all their money on drugs, can't keep jobs, compromise their own mental health.

    Personally I hate the pot smokers total lack of capacity to make a decision, will we go out, no let's stay home, no let's get a dvd, no, let's have people over. Every evening ends up the same, sitting around the house listening to conversation that is absolute drivel. Find someone else!
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    Dec 29, 2010, 07:05 PM

    You ended it with one doper loser, you can do the same with this one too!
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    Jan 4, 2011, 09:51 AM
    I'm not going to lie I've tried weed and its easy to get hooked on it. But if your the kind of person that doesn't like drugs you shouldn't be with a person that likes them... because it's just going to get akward and the love is going to end... weed smokers are sensible.:)

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