[kmgiraffe840]

Is kissing cheating or no?

Last weekend me and a few good friends were out the road partying. A half gallon between about 10 people, but half of us drank more than the other half. I happened to drink over my limit and ended up semi-blacking out toward the end of the night. During that semi-black out stage I ended up making out with one of my good friends. I didn't recall what happened until my other friend told me the morning after.

Ive had a boyfriend for 2 months now. He was sent away last month for treatment without saying goodbye so I don't know if were even together or not, but his friend told me "he's going to miss u and he loves you". I do believe were still going out because we haven't broken up. But he's supposed to be coming back in a couple weeks and I feel terrible for what I did.

And on top of it all, the dude I made out with confessed his true feelings for me. I didn't mean for a drunken make-out session to go this far. Let alone mess up my relationship with both him and my boyfriend.

I need some advice!

What do I tell my friend?
Should I tell my boyfriend when he gets back? Or keep it on the down low?

PLEEEASE HELP ME!

[citygirlrst]

I'm surprised so many people read this and didn't reply. Be honest, lies are the worst thing in a relationship. It sounds like you regret it, if you do; let him know that. If he forgives you then that's great, if he doesn't then at least you were honest. Better you tell him then he find out from someone else. As for the friend, let him know how you feel about him, if you feel it was a mistake then tell him that- but be nice about it. Next time make a shot limit to avoid situations like this ;) good luck

[mmresd]

Yes, you cheated, and it seems like you are not invested in the relationship to begin with, how about ending it?