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    shaladaa Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Feb 23, 2007, 01:13 PM
    My girlfriend is confusing
    Hey everyone... heres my situation...

    I got a girlfriend last Wednesday... on valentines day...

    We are both shy... but we have kissed and cuddled and all that,

    But just today... she kind of blows me off... like she's fine when were alone... at her house and stuff,, but once she's around other people she changes... like she doesn't like me...

    I'm going to call her and ask her what's wrong...

    I get a feeling were going to break up?
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    kristynn Posts: 502, Reputation: 66
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    #2

    Feb 23, 2007, 04:26 PM
    It may sound harsh, but maybe she's just using you? I can't really tell cause I don't have all the details.

    OR

    She's simply TOO shy around other people.
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    shaladaa Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    #3

    Feb 23, 2007, 08:20 PM
    Well... I asked her out...

    If that has anything to do with it..

    Also...

    She talked to my friends girlfriend... she says its like this "I do like him...but its like one day i like him then the next day i dont"


    Soooo what?
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    #4

    Feb 23, 2007, 08:26 PM
    It is confusing, but until she makes up her mind. You need to stay away.

    Joe
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    shaladaa Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 23, 2007, 08:28 PM
    Well... kinda hard to stay away when she goes to my school... so like...

    My friends pressured me to get a GF...

    I like her... (not just cause my friends want me to)

    I still want to go out with her.. but I'm the kind of guy that doesn't deal start arguments and fights in relationships... im not very emotional.
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    kristynn Posts: 502, Reputation: 66
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    Feb 23, 2007, 08:35 PM
    Do you really like this girl? Does she really like you?

    OR

    Are you together... just because?

    How old are you by the way?
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    shaladaa Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 23, 2007, 08:39 PM
    I'm 17 years old...

    I do like her...

    At first it was an akward situation... seeing as how were both kind of shy to each other... but after a few days we have gotten more comfortable with each other,,

    Most of my life I haven't really cared for a girlfriend... now I try it and it gets taken away (I still haven't called her so I'm not sure)

    /sigh at life
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    kristynn Posts: 502, Reputation: 66
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    #8

    Feb 23, 2007, 08:42 PM
    It seems to me that you are both very confused somehow.

    But you did not answer my questions..
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    Feb 23, 2007, 08:54 PM
    My friend just talked to her on the phone and I was on it... I didn't say anything... but I heard them talking...

    She says she just "has nothing for me",, but she kept saying "why do you wanna know" to my friend,, so I'm not sure if she's going to say it all...

    What could I have done to piss her off? I'm nice as hell to everyone... especially someone that's dating me...

    And yes I do like her... I do not LOVE her... because you can't love someone in such a short time.
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    AKaeTrue Posts: 1,599, Reputation: 272
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    Feb 23, 2007, 10:34 PM
    You probably didn't do anything to piss her off. If the two of you didn't know one another very well before you started going out, it's quite possible that within this week of dating, she may feel that the two of you have little in common.
    This may not be the case though... You never know until you call her. Listening in on conversations will only leave you with more unanswered questions...
    Just be brave and go for it, don't let it get you down if it doesn't turn out the way you'd like... It's good experience for the future...
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    #11

    Feb 23, 2007, 10:53 PM
    Hmmm... I guess I will call her tomorrow... not sure what to say but ill find something...
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