[jb520]

I really like this guy I met in school. I had a boyfriend while I met him but I still liked him. Then my boyfriend cheated on me and I told the guy that I liked him. He admitted to liking me too, he confides in me, tells me I feel perfect (in a sappy way), told me something bad that happened to him, admitted he was scared and not ready for a relationship but still likes me, called me cause he felt depressed only 2 days after meeting me, asked to be my non-sexual boyfriend, invited me over his house and used to call me before he went out with friends, says he enjoys my company. Then he stopped calling and we share a locker, when I saw him by it, I asked to go get something to eat with him and he said 'i have to meet a friend, il call you later' he never did. I don't pressure him at all, he kissed me the day I broke up with my boyfriend and said 'im lucky this happened' and 'ill send your boyfriend a thank you note' and 'i was happy being single and then you came along' then he said 'im not ready, I was burnt by my ex' then he stopped calling. What do I do? He started really liking me and now he pulled back...

:mad: :confused:

[kristynn]

Oh well honey, maybe he's just not that into you..

Or

As he said, maybe he's just not ready for a relationship.

Guys sure are confusing.

[misunderstood22]

Honey something like that happened to me except the other way around. The guy had a girlfriend but wanted my friendship. I pulled away from him because after a while he started depending on me all the time. Bottom line in both cases we pulled apart because fear of being hurt. That's probably why. Men hate being rejected and hurt. But your young you'll bounce back.