[XoKaitlinXo]

So me and my boyfriend have been really good lately. But for the past few days he's been hanging out with these 2 other girls along with some other guys. The only thing that bothers me is that ever since they have been hanging out they write all over his Facebook with hearts and whatever.

Idk if I'm over thinking or if its something? I asked him to hang out today and he said maybe, but he has basketball practice later so he isn't sure. I don't want to be annoying and say okay then can we hangout tomorrow? I just feel a little weird about him hanging out with these other girls a lot and I haven't seen him since the weekend. Am I over thinking or should I be concerned?

[talaniman]

That would depend on your ages and activity levels, or if you have friends to hang out with yourself, as this is only Tuesday, so you haven't seen him since Saturday?? Sunday??

He obviously has a fun life without you with both female and males so maybe its just he is a very active fellow, and you are NOT. So its hard to tell without more information, and background. Athletes are also more popular with the females, and attract a large following and generally have their own clique.

You must not be an athlete, cheerleader, or have your own clique, I assume.

[mmresd]

Why don't you join them, instead of choosing to compete with them?

If he is putting you second, then maybe it is time to reconsider how much he actually cares for you whether he is faithful or not.

[XoKaitlinXo]

Im not choosing to compete with them. He never asks me to join. & he never really tells me hs plans unless I ask first. He has no cell phone so whenever I want to get a hold of him to see if he wants to hangout I have to call his house & a lot of the time, he's already out so I can't really ask to join.