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addy · Jan 13, 2007, 04:06 PM

Hey I was wondering because my best friend won't stop bugging me about this and shwe doesn't have Internet acces so I am asking for her.She read sumwhere that when talking to a guy at home on your cell that you should tell him like emotionally what you think about him.well, she told thid one guy whom she was going out with, and shre told him some deep thigns(like emotionally)and he freaked and left her.She wantds to know if she should have told him that or if he wasn't the one?Any advice will be taken appreciatively.:)

J_9 · Jan 13, 2007, 04:09 PM

It all depends on how long they were going out. Usually this kind of info should be given face to face, not over the phone.

Also, the age does matter a lot. How old are they?

addy · Jan 13, 2007, 04:11 PM

They are both 16.

J_9 · Jan 13, 2007, 04:24 PM

And how long were they going out?

addy · Jan 14, 2007, 01:55 PM

When she told him this, 2 week into it.It was last month but she has been droning over him since he dumped her.when she asked and all of our friends asked , he said it was because he met sum1 else.But he doesn't like anyone.I think he just got spooked.But any advice will be taken appreciatively.

Pagan_soul · Jan 14, 2007, 06:11 PM

I think she should have told him her feelings face to face, and made sure that she was absolutely certain about the way she felt before trying to explain.
I was in his position a while ago. 5 weeks into our relationship, my boyfriend told me his feelings, and plans for the future. I got pretty freaked out myself... but I cared about him a lot, not as much as he me, but enough for me not to run away from the relationship.
I suggest she waits next time until she thinks that he feels the same way, and that she's careful about how she tells him. I also repeat that she needs to make sure she is completely truthfull about what she has to tell him, and that she herself believs what she is saying.
I hope I helped.