[Iaskyouanswer]

So, I've been dating this boy for almost a year and a half and he farts like all the time. Now I've been raised as a lady and that guys should never do things like that in front of a lady. Now we just woke up and he farted around 4 or 5 times and then rolls over to try and have sex with me. That's gross. He feels as if I should just deal with it, but I am just utterly put off by it. I'm completely fine if you let one slip by accident every once in a while but he does it at least 10 times a day. I honestly can't deal with it anymore. I just want to hear everyone else's side to this. What do you all think on the matter?

[Fr_Chuck]

Are you for real ? You are not really serious ?
People, men and women fart,

I think you need to learn facts of basic life, this is not a dinner party but at home.

If this is serious, I am sorry for your boyfriend.

[WillHarrison26]

Well I think he needs to show you more respect we all have like and dislikes and we need to respect them

[odinn7]

You know, farting is natural and some guys do it more than others. Some do it more often simply for a reaction. I know I do. I enjoy the fun that comes from a good fart.

Seriously... if it bothers you that much, and you can't get over yourself, then talk to him.

To be honest, maybe you should just lighten up a little.

[LadySam]

Frankly, if he doesn't do it in the supermarket, church, in restaurants and other public places, I don't see it as problematic.
In the privacy of the home where comfort is the norm, not a problem.
Maybe not in front of your Mother.
If it is problem speak with him about and just maybe this too shall pass.

[Ariane16]

Some people naturally produce excessive amounts of gas. Maybe it hurts if he doesn't let it out.
I know that this wouldn't bother me. I think you should take it as a sign that he is comfortable enough with you and that he doesn't want to deal with the stomach-ache of excessive gas when he's in your company.

[ScottGem]

So, I've been dating this boy

Boy? Not man?

Now I've been raised as a lady and that guys should never do things like that in front of a lady.

While its not polite to obviously expel gas in front of someone, it is a natural process, and maybe he is just comfortable with you to relax.

Now we just woke up and he farted around 4 or 5 times and then rolls over to try and have sex with me.

Now I raised a my daughter as a lady and a lady doesn't live with or spend the night with a "boy" she isn't married to. So maybe you weren't raised as much as a lady as you claim.

But the bottom line is whether you have discussed your concerns with him. Like I said, maybe he just feels comfortable enough with you to relax and doesn't know how you react to it.

[Stevie17]

My husband does it all the time and what bothers me is the horrendous odor. You can tolerate your own but I cannot tolerate someone else's foul gas smell and my husband thinks its funny. He is insulted that I hate the smell and feels I should tolerate it as if the smell is pleasant. I think, if you can, go somewhere else and expel the gas in private and don't subject someone else to your foul smelling gas!