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    Apr 21, 2012, 09:10 AM
    Abuse by father to children and pregnant girl
    Hi I need help my husband got my 15 year old daughter and abuses the younger three. I called the police but they won't do anything because he's the man and I'm the women.
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    Apr 21, 2012, 09:15 AM
    Got her pregnant sorry
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    Apr 21, 2012, 09:21 AM
    Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−SAFE (7233). The counselor who answers the phone will tell you what to do.
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    Apr 21, 2012, 09:23 AM
    I am sorry do you live in a country where women have no rights ? ( or little rights) a undeveloped third world nation perhaps,

    Since in the US, it does not work like that, In the US, if there is a abuse, you kick him out of the house to protect the kids, ( don't care if it is legal to kick him out or not, he is out) you call social services ( Children protective services ) and the police if the police will not do anything, call their commander, call the DA.
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    Apr 21, 2012, 09:29 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by doggyhelp123
    My 16 year is pregnant by him
    Quote Originally Posted by doggyhelp123
    my husband got my 15 year old daughter pregnant
    Is your daughter 15 or 16?
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    Apr 21, 2012, 10:30 AM
    You are telling us that your husband got your 15 yr old daughter pregnant (I assume its your daughter and not his) and he isn't in jail? Sorry, I don't buy it. I don't know anywhere in the US and very few places in the rest of the world, where a step father (let alone a natural father) would not go to jail for impregnating a step daughter.

    This is a slam dunk case. She was under age and the baby is proof of having sex with her. The prosecutor walks into court, calls ONE witness, the technician who performed the DNA test. Maybe a second witness to confirm the girl's age at conception.

    That's it two questions, Jury takes two second to deliberate.
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    Apr 21, 2012, 01:16 PM
    This story is true I guess some people still live in the past can you at least tell me what to do
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    Apr 21, 2012, 01:20 PM
    I was your first answer and told you what to do --

    Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−SAFE (7233). The counselor who answers the phone will tell you what to do.
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    Apr 21, 2012, 01:23 PM
    And call child protective services, and if he abuses the kids, either lock him out or you and the kids take off for a family or women's shelter.
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    Apr 21, 2012, 01:23 PM
    I know but I am afraid he will kill us if he found out
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    Apr 21, 2012, 01:25 PM
    The counselor will get you to safety real fast.
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    Apr 21, 2012, 01:43 PM
    So what is going on with this baby? Did you not tell the police who the father is? That's the only way he is not in jail. If you report it to cps of cops, he will be in jail for a very long time.8
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    Apr 21, 2012, 05:56 PM
    OK that is a relief
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