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stressedfout · Apr 17, 2012, 02:52 PM

My boyfriend accuses me of cheating on him ALL the time. Literally all the time. Going through my Facebook, going through my phone, yet he has found nothing so he decides to pull up / bring up guys from my past. I had sex w guys in my past that are still on my Facebook. I don't talk to them, I don't hit them up, I don't even talk to them as a friend, granted I deleted those guys, but some of the guys yea I may have had sex w them once or twice, but we were really friends but yea I told him I had sex w him but we were friends. He thinks I am lying and calls me a whore all sorts of things because he hasn't found crap since we have been together its always about the guys from my past? Seriouslly, he is talking to 2 girls that are his best friends and he had sex w them but its OK cause they were really friends and he can do that. But I can't be friends w a guy that I had sex with. I don't even hang out w them, he goes and hangs out w this girl granted this girl has a boyfriend but she calls him, my boyfriend, to tell him, my boyfriend, about her and her boyfriends problems. Then he is always telling other girls hey beautiful but that is just his friend always giving his number to his past girl friends that he used to hang out w before he got in his 6 yr realationship got in his relationship and hasn't spoke to them so now he wants to start hanging out w them like he isn't in a relationship anymore granted he can hang out w whoever he wants I am not that way, but I cant. Is he cheating on me?

Homegirl 50 · Apr 17, 2012, 03:13 PM

Why are you putting up with him calling you nasty names and going through your stuff?
He is not cheating if he has told you what he's doing, but why do you put up with his other crap?

DoulaLC · Apr 17, 2012, 03:24 PM

I agree with Homegirl_50... why would you want to be with someone who calls you a whore and continues to accuse you of cheating?? How is that a loving, healthy relationship?

Don't you believe that you deserve better treatment from a boyfriend than that?

You aren't going to change him. You have already seen that nothing you do or say will make a difference, so why continue to try?

He may or may not be cheating... you may never know, but you will continue to wonder and that will eat at you.

Personally, I would relieve your biggest stress by ending the relationship.