[iworrywaytomuch]

My boyfriend and I are both virgins. I also still have my hymen attached. Yesterday him and I had anal sex. He did not ***. But there was precum. I know it's not possible to get pregnant from anal sex. His penis was never injected into my vagina but it did rub the outside of it; vuvla I believe it's called. I'm not exactly sure if precum did or didn't get on it. But if it did, could I get pregnant . He also fingered me, my worry is that his finger could have pushed precum on my vagina inside of it. Or maybe there was some on his finger? I do tend to over worry a lot. But I rather worry than not be worried at all. I've read several places that precum does not contain sperm. Only if after the male had masturbated the last term they urinated. Which he says he usually always does either way. But after reading my situation; what do you think my chances of pregnancy are? High? Low? Please help me out. I can't stop worrying.

[Wondergirl]

Precum contains sperm. And yes, it's possible--unlikely, but possible--that sperm was introduced into your vagina.

Why are you playing such dangerous games?

[iworrywaytomuch]

So do you think my chances are high? I'm not even sure if precum got on my vagina.. And if some did. It wasn't much I believe.

[Wondergirl]

I still wondering how you know your hymen is intact. It's "in" your vagina, not "on" it. A vagina is a collapsed tube-like thing.

I said not likely, but possible. Don't have sex unless you are willing to be a parent.

[iworrywaytomuch]

I just went to the gynecologist Wednesday, she confirmed it was still there. This incident happened Thursday.

[Wondergirl]

It may not be there any longer.

[iworrywaytomuch]

If I do not have sex. I didn't ask to be criticized. I just asked for a valid opinion and or answer. But thanks anyway.

[Wondergirl]

Fingering can rupture the hymen too. I am not criticizing you, but you seem to be fairly ignorant of how your (and his) body works.

[iworrywaytomuch]

You are right, I am ignorant to all of this; I wasn't thinking during the situation. This I already know. I'm not planning on it happening again. Do you know any at all if it's true about precum only having sperm if it picks it up from the eureka after last masturbation, unless he urinated after it getting rid of any left over sperm. Ive read it several places but I'm not sure if it's true or not

[iworrywaytomuch]

Urethra**

[Wondergirl]

"eureka"? Do you mean urethra?

[Wondergirl]

Don't believe everything you read online.

You are trying to make a very simple process very complicated. Guys used to tell girls that, If we hold our breath during sex, we won't get pregnant.

Urination doesn't wash out all the sperm. Precum will contain sperm.

[iworrywaytomuch]

I just hope I'm not pregnant... I'm really worried. But I guess I'll just have to wait it out.

[Wondergirl]

Yes, you will play the waiting game now. And please take a lesson from this experience. If someone is not physically, emotionally, and financially ready to have a baby with a full-time job, money in savings, good health insurance, and a place to live, a baby shouldn't even be a twinkle in his or her eye. I had been married for four years, my husband and I both had full-time jobs and an apartment, but the costs and emotional upheaval involved in having a baby were tremendous.

[Wondergirl]

I do wish you well (and being not pregnant). Please let us know what happens.

There is a steady stream of "am I pregnant?" questions every day on this site from high school kids, so if I sounded critical or mean, forgive me.

[iworrywaytomuch]

Your right. Thank you though... my old best friend tended to get around a lot and always used the pull out method. She never got pregnant. I on the other hand haven't had sex in the vagina. So I'm hoping just by some precum getting there I don't get pregnant. But there's not telling. But thank you for commenting.

[iworrywaytomuch]

And I will let y'all know. Because I've read other girls talk about situations like this and I would have wished they got back on and said whether or not they ot pregnant or not. So I will defiantly post on here.

[iworrywaytomuch]

I'm not pregnant(:

[Wondergirl]

And now you are wiser and will be more careful? (Please tell me yes.)